The real possibility of having to explain to my religious family what I had been doing never crossed my mind. I was lucky that I never had to face that scenario. Thanks to a culture that is and always will be hetero-oriented, queer people are often delayed. Many of us wait until we have safe space and medical resources to start having sex.
Many of us wait until we leave our parents and have our own places to live — which affords us the privacy and freedom to start experimenting. Many of us wait until we find a community of others like us — potential sex partners included.
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The mechanics of sex may feel uncomfortable and painful. It might not happen the first time. Foreplay is awesome. Making out, hand jobs, sucking, and even gentle kissing and massaging are a great way to start. Some people come out of the gate thinking they know exactly what they want sexually, but most of us are unsure.
No one knows what they want in the beginning. You will be thrown a lot of terminology, especially if you look for sex with men on hookup apps like Grindr. Words like top, bottom, versatile, bare, raw, party, safe, poz, neg, cum, daddy, dom, sub, boy, otter, bear, pig. The list goes on and on. You can and should experience both! You make these mistakes now, learn from them, and are better prepared going forward. Keep trying. The safest sex partners are the ones getting regular testing for HIV and other STIs — a minimum of every three to six months — and who are protecting themselves with condoms and PrEP more on those later.
When someone asks, you can tell them that: That question is designed to shame and manipulate you.
Anal penetration might hurt the first time you try it. Your ass has to expand to accomodate a penis, and this stretching can hurt. Going slow and gentle, using plenty of lube, communicating, and taking frequent breaks is how you get better at it. Read my guide on bottoming health and safety tips here. If you want to research different methods of cleaning men who have sex with men do, go for it.
Many guys douche before sex, but douching is not a requirement to have a good experience. You can use water to clean your butt specifically, the lower part of your rectum, the space just inside your hole with a drugstore enema or handheld bulb.
If you buy a drugstore enema, many of them are filled with laxatives, which you should empty out and replace with water before you use them. Going too fast or too rough can be painful I recommend a thick, silicone-based lube for the insertion tip. Also, make sure you try to release all the water into the toilet — leftover water stuck in your butt can cause discomfort later on. When your butt is filled with water, wait a few seconds, then release it into the toilet.
Repeat as necessary until the water is clear. Be gentle, and go slow! Again, not every guy douches before sex. A healthy, fiber-rich diet lots of veggies, less meat eliminates the need to douche for some. Whether or not it ruins the sex mood is up to you. North Koreans hold mass rally to celebrate Kim Jong Un's re-election.
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